This year will be no different - I will set goals. I will review how I did compared to what I thought last year. I will try to learn and refine my systems.
Have a great New Year.
I listened recently to a CD series (which is actually a book as well) called The War of Art by Steven Pressfield. The audio version can be found here
I loved the program. The gist of the message is in all things great we face resistance and resistance stops us from doing our art. Although Pressfield is an actual writer and so uses the word artist for writers and painters, etc. I would apply the same lessons to those of an entrepreneur.
He was briefly a marine in the US Marines. He said it's not necessarily that Marines are any better, but they teach the Marines how to deal with pain and live under adverse circumstances and that's very good life training. Part of success is being able to deal positively with adversity.
The gist of his message is we need to be disciplined, we need to recognize that we will have resistance to doing what we need to or should be doing. To get over that resistance we need to develop systems to deal with it. Successful people are able to do things that don't give immediate gratification. I wrote a blog on Delayed Gratification and the Economy last year.
It is a good book. He is a writer so it is well written (despite the fact that I listened to it and did not read it).
Ok - I admit it, I talk to myself.
Mantras are talking to one’s self is a tool to keep on track. I am not talking about meditation mantras. (although I am also a believer in meditation).
I am a great believer in self-talk. We tend to listen to what we have to say. Self talk can be positive and reinforcing or it can be negative.
I do not talk to myself all the time and I tend to change what I say to myself depending on the circumstances and what I want to accomplish.
Some of the simple mantras that I use:
"Successful People do Tough Things" – When I dread something but need to get through it regardless. I view myself as a successful person so this prompts me to get going and keep going.
"What the heck, go for it anyway" – This one is useful when building up courage to do something. The scenarios are endless, negotiating with a company about a charge or cost of an item, making new friends, starting a project even when a odds may be stacked against you etc.
"I am very healthy, I heal very quickly" – Half the battle with regard to health is in the mind. I am by no means making the suggestion to forgo medical treatment if there is something legitimately wrong with you, but a little positive reinforcement can go a long way.
"Garbage in, garbage out" – Useful for poor eating habits, media garbage (not meant to slam all media - some is good), bad TV (that would be most of it which is why I watch very little), bad reading etc.
"I honor my mind and body" (or when I am in Canada "I honour my mind and body") - same as the Garbage in, garbage out one.
"Back to Work" This simple mantra helps me regain focus. Often I can become distracted from my top priority. This gets me back on track.
I recently reread Growing @ the Speed of Change by a friend of mine, Jim Clemmer. When I say I recently reread it, I actually read it before it was published to give comments to the author. See my FTC Disclosure.
The subtitle is Your Inspir-actional How-To Guide for Leading Yourself and Others Through Constant Change.
One thing I love about Jim Clemmers' books (and he is a prolific author), is his liberal use of quotations, such as:
"knowing is not enough, we must apply, willing is not enough, meanwhile we must do.."Goeth 1749- 1832
The basic theme of the book is how to thrive in turbulent times. The first third of the book discusses and tries to convince you that change is actually happening at a great rate. One of the early chapters is even titled I Predict...More Unpredictability.
One concept that he uses is wallowing, this is complaining that it's not the good old days and wishing there was no change.
"Following" which is characterized by cynicism, skepticism, cautious and helplessness.
The ultimate goal which is leading, which includes optimism, positive outlook, courage, hopeful, proactive, gets results, etc.
This is interesting dichotomy the book I recently reviewed that said positive thinking was killing America.
I love the chapter on "I don't have authority". The gist of that message is even though people don't specifically have the authority, there are lots of things they can do to still bring about change.
The book could be characterized as a positive thinking book, but it acknowledges that it requires a lot of action to get things done. At the same time, he provides a lot of tools on how to think and be positive to your advantage.
It was an enjoyable read.
"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit" - Aristotle
I am not a sports person (there is a difference between being active which I am and loving to watch sports). I did, however, find the book interesting.
ESPN certainly created an awesome, well known brand. They deliberately set out to cater to sports fanatics(their words - not mine). They are passionate about it. They also set out to create sports fanatics.
One thing that makes ESPN unique is there is not a single person behind it. There have been a succession of owners and leadership. There is no icon behind the brand. Culture can continue to drive an organization regardless of the leader. From the book:
"It is easy to get mystical about leadership. To generate alchemical formulas to explain its wondrous power. The reason is simple. Leadership is confusing and messy as hell. It comes in many difference circumstances and personalities. So we want to distill it."
All the leader does is start minor course corrections which have impact over time if they are continuously reinforced. One thing I learned from running larger companies is culture takes time and vigilance to change. It is likely the most important aspect of a company and at the same time, the toughest. I try hard to let people make decisions but coach on culture.
The book talks about Smith's Stages of Organizational development. Startup - Survival -Ramp Up Growth - Institutional. Smith implies that different stages of companies need different leaders. What interests me currently is thinking of which phase I am best at. I have been through all of the stages although my institutional experience still involved quite a bit of growth (I am a big believer in growth as the painless way to drive efficiency).
I like the "Key Points" at the end of each chapter (all business books should do this). If you really wanted just to get the business message and not the story.
Some of the chapter summary points (and the book has a lot more detail than this):
Let insecurity drive achievement.
Deviate from the start (a version of my Fail Often, Fail fast, Fail cheap). Plans are meant to be broken.
Follow your values and challenge the rules.
Seek transformational - not transactional partnerships.
Like relationships - partnerships require work.